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If I was asked this matter about an ideal man in my youth, I'd tell you at once whom I wanted to meet... But now, my preferences are a bit different 😉
Women have their life planned out from a young age. We know what sort of house we want, what sort of decorative style the house will be decorated and furnished in, etc..
The same with men. We know what type of men we want in our life, what character features he should have and how he should look like 😁
Age plays a big factor. When you're young you like the “ Bad Boys ” the “ Cool Guys. ” Now, when I am older, I look for a self-confident person, not to be confused with arrogant, which is the ability to know who you are and what you want while being able to take into account the wants and needs of others.
A strong sense of humor is important. You should be able to laugh at yourself, refrain from laughing at others, not take yourself too seriously, and chuckle at the absurdities of life.
Kindness, being able to give of oneself, generosity, thinking of others, and in general being a decent human being.
All the other stuff, like whether you like long hikes, sushi, poetry, or whatever, are simply details, things that help bond us as a couple once we have each shown that we are in fact decent human beings who are adult enough to handle being in a relationship.
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