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I’m looking for a man who isn’t afraid of my anxiety. Who, when I’m quiet, doesn’t disappear, but asks, “What’s wrong?” Who doesn’t slam the door when we’re arguing, but stays by my side and says, “Let’s talk calmly.” I need someone calm and balanced—my anchor when things are going awry..
You’re the one who hears my needs, even if I don’t voice them perfectly. You’re there not only on holidays, but also on Tuesday nights. You take responsibility, you don’t run away, you don’t close yourself off. And you want the same things I want: romance, long walks, late-night conversations, conscious dates, being mindful of boundaries, and moving toward our goals—together.
You won’t save me from myself. But you’ll be there. And that will be perfect.
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